Finding Your Happy Place

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I’m not sure I agree completely with the quote above.  Let’s face it, trials can come at any hour.  However, I concur with the comfort and happiness statement.  So come in.  Let’s forget our troubles for the moment, enjoy the French café music playing, and discuss our happy places!

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I’m always telling people, “That looks like my happy place,” or “That’s one of my happy places!”  In all honesty, it doesn’t take much to make me glad.  A stroll through Sur La Table or World Market can do the trick, or a turn with a good book accompanied by a cup of piping hot tea and some quiet.  When we get a spring visit from an Oriole (they visit rarely and only in spring), or some of my flowers are in bloom, a window becomes my cheerful spot.

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I live in a congested area.  The freeways are all jammed and the side streets aren’t much better.  Just getting to the grocery store can be a chore.  Thus, a seaside cottage on a remote Scottish coast often becomes the spot I long for.  A girl can dream, right?  My husband claims it appeals to him, too.  But wait, there’s more!  What about Paris in the spring time — or anytime for that matter?  Oui, j’aime Paris!

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I’ve chosen a Parisian theme for our tea today.  I braved my crowded town for all these store-bought items — still quicker than homemade.

Take a gander and choose what appeals to you from the herbed cheeses, olives, date crackers, croissants, jams, chocolate covered figs, and marzipan.

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Choose a tea.  I’ll brew your preference in your individual pot.   Sit a spell and tell me about your very own happy places, real or imagined!

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Mix-and-match cups, plates, and small tea pots make a fun, casual table.

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Tips

  • When combining different patterns, be sure your colors mingle well together.  I like to keep at least one constant.  Here, my napkins and placemats match with a crisp blue stripe.
  • Creating a theme always adds some excitement.  My French cheese plates and Café Paris teapots create a Francophile atmosphere.
  • Consider utilizing dinner plates as chargers to lend a little drama to your tablescape if your main dishes are on the small side.
  • Pamper guests with individual tea pots and allow them to choose their own brew.  They may even stay long enough for a second pot!

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Thank you for visiting and be sure to let me know about your happy place in the comment section!

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An Elegant Easter Salon de Thé

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Thank you for popping by.  I hope you enjoy the little tea salon I’ve created for us to enjoy.  Easter is almost upon us and I wanted to do something special in honor of this holiday.

Are you old enough to remember Easter hats, gloves, and fancy pastel dresses with ruffles? I can recall wearing these at a very young age.  I also recollect my wonderful great aunts who came for holiday dinners.  These were truly special ladies, born in the 1800s.  I have photos of them in white gloves, lavish costume jewelry pins decorating their garments, and smiles on their sweet faces.  In the early 1900s, these siblings joined the rage of painting their own china.traycrop sized  IMG_3555crop sizedMy sister has an entire set of dainty pink place settings, including tiny salt cellars, inherited from one of them.  I managed to end up with a few serving pieces and four dessert plates, each a unique work of art.  I’m using a platter today.  One of these aunts witnessed the Oklahoma land rush.  Her mother placed her on her shoulder and said, from their perch on a nearby hill, “Watch this and remember it.  You are witnessing history.”

I’ve had other incredible experiences at Easter. One year, I was invited to a prayer breakfast where the famous coach, Dick Vermeil, spoke… pure inspiration and motivation.  I’ve frozen in the dark, waiting for many an outdoor sunrise service to begin.  With teenagers in the house, these are now a no-go.  Try prying a sleepy teen from his bed at that hour!  I’ve spent the day with cousins, aunts, uncles, and grandparents, enjoying their company and the excitement of an egg hunt.

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There’s just something lovely about the flowers, colors, baskets, and fellowship on offer this time of year.  I’ve tried to capture some of this with our Easter Tea.

So, do come in, grab a cup and saucer, fill a plate, find a seat and enjoy!

There are so many wonderful spreads to chose from at your grocer’s now.  I found a cheddar jalapeno cream cheese for these ham rolls.  IMG_3605 sizedSome might think the flavor too strong for tea, but I love something spicy with my cuppa!  I combined softened cream cheese and chopped water cress for a filling for those less tolerant of the heat associated with hot peppers.  In addition, I blanched asparagus and baked the spring vegetable inside crescent rolls with a slice of sharp cheddar.  It’s a great way to get kids to eat their veggies, and I’ve made this many times with broccoli spears as well.  The brew today is a black tea, flavored with peach.  It seemed chipper for spring.  Store bought muffins stuffed with fruit filling and mini raspberry pastries add some decadence to the menu.  If your sweet tooth still craves something, partake of the jelly beans, chocolate eggs, or tiny foil wrapped bunnies.

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Tips:

  • Create an elegant space to serve tea.  I cleared off a cabinet in a small area that allowed for guests to file past and choose their treats.  Seating can be in another nearby room.
  • Don’t forget music!  You can set the tone of your gathering based upon what you choose.  I’m playing some sacred choral music at a low volume, to encourage conversation while still adding to the Easter ambience.
  • Small items, like these bunnies, define the theme.  Get creative and have fun!

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Recipe:

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  • 1 can refrigerated crescent rolls
  • 1 triangle, thin sliced cheddar for each roll
  • 2 asparagus spears per roll, thick end cut off

Blanch asparagus by adding cut spears to rapidly boiling, heavily salted water (I use a large skillet for this with about an inch of water).  Remove after 30 seconds & place in prepared ice bath (ice and water in a large, flat pan).   Preheat oven according to refrigerated dough instructions.  Separate dough.  Add a piece of cheese, the approximate size of the crescent and two spears of asparagus onto each dough triangle.  Roll into crescent shapes and place on cookie sheet.  Bake as directed.  Serve immediately.
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Thank you for joining me!  Happy Easter!  He is risen, indeed!

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Paying Homage to Saint Patrick

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     So glad you could come to my Saint Patty’s tea!  For this mid-morning extravaganza, I’ve brewed a pot of Barry’s Irish Breakfast tea, and made some special treats just for you.  Enjoy the Irish harps I have playing on the stereo while I pour the tea.

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Did you know there’s more to St. Patty’s Day than wearing green, pinching or socking each other, and tinting rivers (or beer) artificial colors?  Have you ever heard of the real Saint Patrick?

He started life in Roman Britain, way back before 400 AD. Raised in a Christian family, he himself had no personal faith.  As a young teen, Patrick was abducted from his homeland and sold as a slave in then pagan Ireland, where he saw his situation as punishment from God for his prior unbelief.  He wrote of this time in The Confession.

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Through his trials, according to Rev. Brady, the Roman Catholic Archbishop of Armagh and Primate of All of Ireland, Patrick “Came to know another God — God the Father, who was his protector.  He came to know Jesus Christ in those sufferings, and he came to be united with Christ and he came to identify with Christ, and then of course, also the Holy Spirit.”

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Amazingly, after hearing a voice in the middle of the night telling him that his ship awaited, Patrick escaped slavery and returned home.  He applied himself to study and, in a dream, was called back to Ireland.  The young man struggled with returning to a land where he’d been cruelly enslaved and where the people worshipped multiple gods.  After a second dream, confirming his calling, he returned to Ireland and faced off against Druid priests, ultimately winning Ireland for Christ.

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Legend holds that he used a three leaf clover to help explain the trinity to the Irish.  That may be why we still hold the shamrock as a symbol of the holiday.  Patrick preached the Gospel for 29 years in Ireland, baptized 120,000 people and started over 300 churches.  No one knows where the saint is buried.

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It’s hard to imagine the obedience of this man, returning to possible death, torture, and slavery to tell those who had mistreated him about Christ!  We celebrate his bravery today on March 17, Saint Patrick’s Day.

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As a child, this holiday caused me much stress.  For some reason, I never owned any green clothing.  So, I would be dodging pinches all day at school.  If someone nipped you and it turned out you did sport a bit of green, you were allowed to sock them!  I wonder if this is still allowed in our current age of political correctness.  Did any of you ever have to run the gauntlet?  The class would form two lines.  The birthday child had to run down the middle, braving punches from everyone else!  I have met several adults who remember this tradition.

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To ward off any old, negative feelings about St. Patrick’s Day, I wanted to prepare something extra special for our tea.  The summer before my senior year of high school, I spent living with my grandmother.  Her children felt she needed a companion, and until they found someone to hire, I fit the bill.  She made an easy version of strawberry shortcake, which I’ve modified.  Grandma split refrigerator biscuits and layered them with sweetened strawberries and whipped cream.  I’ve used a small cookie cutter to make heart-shaped strawberries and mini rolls, then stacked them with clotted cream… perfect for our tea!

I’ve also baked mini quiche, and steeped blackberries in cooled, Earl Grey tea.  Store bought waffles and lemon meringues add a sweet touch while pretty green glass fruit cups provide color and nourishment.

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Tips:

  • A variety of patterns can be used on your table.  Just keep the palette similar.
  • Pretty doilies elevate plain cloth napkins.  Because I utilized different fabrics, I chose simple napkin rings.
  • Infuse berries with tea and other flavors for a unique surprise.
  • Add a bit of whimsy to your table.  I’ve included a charming porcelain frog playing an Irish flute.

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Recipes:

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  • 1 tube refrigerator biscuit dough
  • 6 large strawberries, sliced about 1/8 inch thick
  • Clotted cream (available at import stores in U.S.)
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Remove dough from can & use heart shaped cookie cutter to make 18 mini biscuits (left over dough can be used for other purposes, if refrigerated).  Bake on cookie sheet according to instructions.   Cut hearts from strawberry slices and sprinkle with sugar.  When biscuits are done, slice in half with sharp knife.  Spread small amount of clotted cream on each half, placing sweetened strawberry shape in middle.  Sandwich together.  Makes 18 servings.

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Brew 1 cup of strong Earl Grey tea. Stir in 2 Tablespoons mint simple syrup.  Allow to cool completely.  Steep berries (I prefer raspberries) in mixture for a half hour.  Serve immediately, draining excess liquid.

To make syrup:

Boil 1 cup water with 2 cups granulated sugar, stirring until mixture becomes homogeneous.  Remove from heat and add fresh, chopped mint.  When completely cool, strain mint from syrup.  Use to make steeped berries and retain the rest to sweeten tea, pour over cakes, or use in mixed drinks.

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Thank you for joining me to celebrate St. Patrick’s Day!   Drop by any time!

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A Vertical Tea

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Hello.  So glad you could stop by!

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I’m short on space today, so I’ve prepared what I’m calling A Vertical Tea.  Just place a small table where there’s room, and build up!  My son gave me these adorable stacked cups.  They’re convenient because they take up so little space.  Whether you need a morning boost, cup with lunch, or an afternoon pick-me-up, they’re always ready on my counter, for tea or coffee.  I love the lively colors.  It turned out El Nino was not all it was cracked up to be, and February proved hot and sunny on the West Coast.  DSC01800 sized DSC01796 sizedMy wisteria is in full bloom, so I braved all the buzzing bees and grabbed a few stems to add some life to our table.  I’ve brewed a combination of flavors from tea bags and loose leaves.

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There are many different kinds of tea bags on the market.  I don’t care as much for the ones made of a silky material (shown as a triangle here).  They just don’t seem to make a strong a cup.  I can usually get two cups from a paper tea bag.  I often mix flavors to come up with something exciting.  Although I didn’t include it today, I especially enjoy throwing in some Chai for that bold, spicy taste.

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When employing loose leaf tea, you will need a strainer and/or infuser.  Infusers range from large, pierced balls adequate for an entire pot – to small shapes suitable for the lone cup.  DSC01794 sizedI especially like wire mesh infusers.  Just be sure to keep at least half your infuser empty.  Tea leaves expand in water and you want some space available for the liquid to move through the leaves.  I’ve found that filling less than 50% of the infuser works well.  IMG_3308cropcorrect sizedDon’t feel shy about checking the pot for your brew’s strength and remove the tea once you’re happy.  Some people even place the leaves directly in the pot, then employ a sieve for any that escape during the pour.  Many teapots have built in filters where the spout meets the body of the pot.  You will still need an additional strainer if you prefer this method.  Have fun and experiment!

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I’ve chosen some upbeat, light jazz to accompany our black currant tea.  Try one of my favorite store bought cookies, soft Almond Amaretti Virginia Biscuits, imported from Italy.  I love their cheerful wrappers!  Apricot kernels are one of their key ingredients.   Grab a strawberry, get comfy, and tell me about your weekend.

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Tips:

  • Add some colorful napkins to make your table lively.
  • Remove tea leaves from the pot or cup once desired strength is reached.  Bags can often be re-used for a second cup.  Just watch those drips!

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  • If space is limited, build up.  Utilize cookie or candy jars instead of a tray.
  • A plain teapot works well with casual, multicolored cups.
  • Whenever possible, utilize fresh flowers or plants on your tea table.
  • Keep the dry tea scant when filling infusers.
  • Keep tea stored in tins.
  • Be careful when opening infusers after use.  The tea will have expanded and wet leaves often spring out when the container is opened, making a mess.

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Thank you for joining me.  I look forward to meeting again soon!  Check out this poem.  I got a kick out of it:

“We had a kettle, we let it leak:
Our not repairing made it worse.
We haven’t had any tea for a week…
The bottom is out of the Universe.”
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A Tea for Liz

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Do come in!  I’ve prepared a celebratory tea in honor of my friend, Liz.

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Liz is one of my internet friends.  Although we live on different continents, we’ve bonded over books, her love of geology (I think we might call her a rock hound in the States), and her fabulous sense of humor.  We have walked a similar path in recent months, during which she demonstrated her gift of encouragement.  She gave us a scare of late with a bit of ill health, but now that she’s on the mend, I wanted to put together a cheerful afternoon in her tribute.  Since we are separated by the Pacific, what better way to celebrate than a virtual tea?

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I’ve brought out charming porcelain from Pip Studio and made a blended brew of loose black tea leaves, dried currants, blueberries, apples, raisins, and hibiscus.   I’ve chosen a selection of joyful, popular tunes from the 1930s as our music.  With songs such as The Younger Generation, This is the Missus, Everything Stops For Tea, and A Reckless Night On Board An Ocean Liner, this album always puts a smile on my face.

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It’s summer Down Under, so I thought Snowballs might be in order.  They are a quintessential junk food item in America with a cream filling surrounded by chocolate cake, marshmallow and coconut.  Hey, it’s a virtual treat, so enjoy!  Plus, they match my china.

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Individual red velvet cakes and chocolate dipped strawberries make a decadent addition to the tea table.

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I decorated these cookies myself, in honor of Liz’s love of flowers.  The recipe came from my mother and can’t be beat for iced sugar cookies.

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A lace tablecloth and pretty linens from Pip Studio complete the décor.  My children bought me these heart-shaped stones on our trips.  I’ve included them to symbolize Liz’s interest in geology, minerals, crystals, and gemstones.

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Tips:

A complimentary collection of pieces works well together and keeps the atmosphere fun and delightful, not stodgy.

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Recipe:

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1 egg yolk, beaten
6 Tablespoons powdered sugar
1 cup sifted flour
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Cream butter & sugar thoroughly.  Add vanilla & beat until blended.  Add egg yolk, beating well.  Add flour gradually, beating.  Roll out on floured surface (I roll between 2 sheets of wax paper) – cut out with cutters & bake at 350 degrees for approximately 15 minutes.  Cool.  Decorate as desired.   I  beat together 1 box powdered sugar, 1 Tablespoon softened butter, 1 Tablespoon vanilla, & enough boiling water for correct consistency.  Then divide into smaller bowls & tint with food coloring to desired shades.  Keep icing under plastic wrap when not in use to avoid crust forming on top.  Cookies can be kept in tins or in refrigerator after icing dries.

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Thank you for joining me for this jolly afternoon tea.  Come again soon!

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A Viennese Tea

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Hello!  Please come in and enjoy the strains of Mozart’s The Magic Flute.

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I’ve prepared a special late afternoon tea as a tribute to Vienna.  My husband and I visited this remarkable city back in the mid ’90s.  Memories of the opulent architecture, palaces, cathedrals, opera, Royal Lippizzaner horses, china, and pastries fill my head.  There’s no place in the world like Vienna for pastries.  A friend offered to show us around the city, and she’d placed Café Landtmann on our agenda.  Famous as one of Freud’s haunts, the restaurant sits near Vienna’s center of government.

“Isn’t it funny that the building that holds their politicians is called the Rathaus?” my friend commented.

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I’ll make a disclaimer right here:  Vienna is known for its coffee, not tea.  To the uninitiated, Viennese coffee can come as a shock.  It’s strong.  So strong, we thought our spoons might melt in our cups, and we affectionately started referring to the hot beverage as RotgutIMG_3239 sized.jpgEven in my younger days, my stomach couldn’t handle it.  Our friend suggested we try a Melange, the Austrian version of cappuccino.  Even that proved too stout.  I had to keep asking our waiter for extra milk.  Take a sip, add a shot of milk to the cup, nibble on a pastry.  Then start the process all over again until there is enough dairy to take the edge off the robust drink.

It was ten a.m. on a weekday, and Café Landtmann was filled with well heeled patrons.  Unlike Americans, the Viennese think nothing of leaving work for a leisurely pastry, coffee, and cigarette.  Our waiter, dressed in a black jacket, crisp white shirt and tie, accommodated me.  Paneled walls with fancy bouquet inlays and moldings, chandeliers, rich fabrics, and tall arched windows clad in lavish drapes surrounded me.  You get the idea.

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All this luxury comes with a price tag, which leads me to my next standout memory of Vienna.  Back then, I drank a soda every day.  I’d become dependent on its sugar and caffeine.  In Austria, when you ask for a cola, you get a small juice glass worth.  I’d had it.  I was exhausted late one afternoon when I plunked down at an outdoor café opposite the famous Sacher Hotel.  “I’d like a large Coke,” I said to the waiter.  “Large?” he inquired, with raised eyebrows.  I don’t think he’d ever heard of the word in relation to a cola.  “Large!” I confirmed.

I got my big beverage (a little more than a can’s worth), and I’ve kept the receipt in a scrapbook of our trip, along with a photo of my husband’s shocked expression (this is the man who chose to walk from a train station in Salzburg to our hotel in order to save cab fare, busting a wheel on his luggage that required an expensive fix — much more than the $5 fee for a ride).  The soft drink cost $7, in 1995, with a good exchange rate.  I must add, it was worth every penny to me!

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I’ve chosen the most opulent spot in my house to set up our tea.  In honor of the Sacher Torte, ubiquitous in Vienna, I’ve prepared a strong apricot tea.  See these pretty Mozart Kugeln candies?  I first sampled them in Austria.  They are filled with a chocolate cream surrounded by hazelnut, almond, and pistachio paste.  I’ve also sandwiched apricot jam between wafer cookies, topped with a dark chocolate piping — another tribute to the torte.  Try one of these apple blossoms, a yummy pastry topped with caramel.

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In Vienna, we saw a production of The Magic Flute.  The composer is featured throughout the city, as is Strauss.  Formal waltzes are held several nights a week, so you can dance the night away, if that’s your cup of tea.

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My wedding dishes grace a lavish cabinet.  I think the china motif reflects an Art Nouveau design.  The city offers many examples of the movement.  One of my favorite painters is Gustav Klimt, but I missed the opportunity to see his work in Austria.

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These napkin rings are cherished keepsakes of my visit to Vienna.  I regret not purchasing the matching place card holders.  Perhaps I couldn’t afford them after paying for my cola!

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Tips

Don’t be afraid to use your best china.  It’s meant to be enjoyed.

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Drape your tea table with rich fabrics, like this damask runner with tassels, for a special touch.

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Pipe chocolate icing in the form of your guests’ initials onto treats.  I used a store bought tube.  Snip the corner off a Ziplock bag.  Squeeze a small amount of icing into the plastic bag and pipe whatever design you desire.  Practice on a paper plate until you feel confident moving on to the treats.  I suggest freezing small amounts of icing to thaw out as needed.  This way, you will always be ready to add a monogram on a cookie, cupcake, or candy.  Your friends will be thrilled with the personalization!

Thank you for coming.  If you ever get the chance to visit Vienna, jump at it!  I hope you’ve enjoyed yourself, and do pop by anytime!

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A Sweetheart Deal

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Hello!  Please settle in, as we enjoy selections from Bach’s lute suites!
I’ve prepared a tea tray in your honor!

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A sweetheart deal implies one of the parties involved in a transaction receives a better than normal incentive or bargain.  Unfortunately, we aren’t always wise enough to recognize one of these arrangements.

Remember the classroom excitement that built before Valentine’s Day?  Depending on the efforts of our Room Mother, the day could prove exceptional.  We all had white paper bags, ready to be stuffed with greetings by our classmates.  valentineSpace sized.jpgIf lucky, the party included disposable nut cups, filled with tiny pastel candy hearts, pretty doilies, punch, and a cupcake.  Oh, how I wish I’d saved those adorable valentine cards!  For some reason, my father always provided the colorful notes I would give to others.  He’d come home with a package or two, a few days ahead of time.  I would add that he also brought each family member luxurious chocolates, a splurge, when the holiday arrived.

By the time I entered high school, we’d moved from Los Angeles to the rural Midwest, a difficult adjustment for a teenager.  One year, out of the blue, my dad presented me with two boxes of valentines to give to my friends.  My face must have said it all, I’m ashamed to say.  Mortified, I complained to Mom, “No one gives these things out anymore!”  I can still see the top card of the collection, visible through a cellophane window in the carton.  A darling bright yellow duck with an umbrella, trailed by a flock of ducklings, winked at me.

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“You don’t have to pass those out.  Just toss them when your father’s not looking.  It makes Daddy feel good to buy those,” she said, amused, adding, “it reminds him of his childhood.”  Oh, how I wish I’d saved those cards!

My college years proved a dry, desert wasteland as far as Valentine’s Day goes.  I somehow managed to be single every February.  Our family used to laugh when Grandfather mentioned he’d always dump his girl right before this holiday, to avoid having to buy a gift.  Now, that didn’t seem so funny.  Walking through a dorm lobby stuffed to capacity each year with amazing floral arrangements, meant for others, was no fun, I can tell you!

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Fast forward to the first year my oldest son attended school.  The big occasion approached, and I could not wait to buy some of those enchanting tokens from my childhood.  ValentineSodaFountain2 sized.jpgImagine me standing in the drug store aisle, horror on my face, discovering only movie and television themed cards!  Power Rangers for Valentine’s Day?  No thank you!  Obsessed, I searched all over town for the real thing.  Certainly, someone carried proper love notes for children?  Nope.  Time had passed me by once again.  Depressed, I waved the white flag, and settled on some ugly superhero greetings with a heart-shaped sticker.  I included a lollipop to soften the blow.  The kids had no idea how gypped they were, having never seen the greetings available in my youth.  Oh, how I wished I’d saved those packages my father gave me!

Have you already guessed what I learned from these experiences?  I had become just like my dad!  Several years after the card fiasco, both my boys had “official” valentines.  I determined to provide proper items for these little girls.  I may have overdone it just a tad.  You can be the judge, but my youngest looks scared and embarrassed in these photos.  The girls appreciated their gifts, so perhaps I can justify my temporary insanity.

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Looking at these pictures, I feel soooo guilty!

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In an attempt to ensure you come away with a special memory, I’ve made tea just for you!  I’ve even managed to find some reproduction vintage cards to warm your heart.  I purchased these online from Victoria Trading Company.  I hope they bring a smile to your face.

What Valentine memories or traditions can you share?

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I’ve brewed a custom, strong blend of youthberry and wild orange blossom black tea.  This stands up to the scrumptious chocolates.  I’ve included strawberries and store bought éclairs, so you’ll feel pampered, as well as ladyfingers sandwiched with raspberry cream.  Enjoy!

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In my area, ladyfingers are only available around Christmas.  I stashed a package in my refrigerator, so we’d have some today.  A combination of marshmallow cream, cream cheese, and seedless raspberry jam (made only with fruit, no added sweeteners) makes up the filling.  I suggest making a full recipe of the cream (1 package cream cheese + 1 jar marshmallow cream, beaten together with an electric mixer).  Set aside the small amount (perhaps 1/4 cup) required to make these elegant sandwiches, and refrigerate the remainder.

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In a small bowl, mix a teaspoon of jam and a drop of pink food coloring, if desired, with 1/4 cup of filling.  To assemble, spread between two lady fingers.  Top with a fresh raspberry.  The remaining mixture makes a wonderful fruit dip you can enjoy with your family later.

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Pretty pink transferware seems appropriate for Cupid.  The cups are Old Britain Castles by Johnson Brothers, which I first spotted years ago in a thrift shop.  If I recall, I couldn’t resist the square teapot, an inexpensive Chinese import found at a Cracker Barrel Restaurant (I also picked up the matching sugar & creamer, not pictured).

Photocopy any ephemera you wish to share with others, and keep the originals for yourself!  You can still find the real thing on Ebay, although be careful — someone may swoop in at the last moment and outbid you, as happened to me.

By the way, if you haven’t read Saki (see quote, above), locate a copy of The Complete Works of Saki (the pen name of H. H. Munro) to enjoy at your leisure with a cuppa.  His writing is so charming, you’ll find yourself richly entertained.

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Thank you for coming, Friends.  Drop by again soon!

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A Honey of a Tea

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Please come in.  I hope you’re ready to discuss bees, sweeteners, and whatever else may come to mind on this chilly day!

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I love bees, which some may find ironic considering our painful past.  As a child, summer meant a vacation to my grandparents’ farm in the Midwest.  Humidity, snakes, bugs, and bees were all included, free of charge.  Somehow, out of the fifteen or so grandchildren gathered each year, these buzzers attacked only me.  I became the victim of any number of varieties, from tiny pests, referred to as sweat bees, to hornets, wasps, and everything in between.  Grandmother, a product of the 1800s and just five feet tall, never allowed these things to vex her.  I’d observe her resting on the front porch, seated in her favorite yellow metal chair from the 1940s, on any given hot afternoon.  She didn’t bother to notice that several flying bushwhackers had alighted on her bare arms or legs.  My grandma didn’t own a pair of long pants, and the sight of her in a calico dress, with a bonnet she’d sewn herself from flour sacks, always warmed my heart.

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I looked forward to seeing my grandparents, but dread of the assault that would invariably come from the bee quarter caused me quite a bit of worry and stress.  I recall cousins rolling me on the ground, then picking stingers out of my stomach, and other such frightful experiences.

But, Grandma knew how to make things better.  She had a magic box, or treasure chest of concoctions the likes of which I’ve never seen anywhere before or since.  Mounted on the wall, right in the entrance hall (Grandmother was a practical woman, after all), the enormous medicine cabinet measured what seemed to be three by three feet.  Only one jar deep, the case’s dimensions allowed her to view the entire archive of remedies at a glance.

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In the days before all-powerful pharmaceutical companies and strict government regulations, she accumulated these cures from a man known as The Peddler.  I don’t remember him, but I’ve seen home movies of my siblings running down the hill to meet his old, beat up bus, full of merchandise.  He traveled the rural area with a wide array of products, allowing farm people to stay put and not waste valuable daylight with a trip to town in search of a sudden necessity.

My grandmother had a treatment for anything and everything in that cabinet.  She’d swab my abdomen down with a dark brown elixir that smelled repugnant but drew the pain from the stings, or rub a pasty ointment on my neck where another pest left a welt.  These antidotes worked, and they worked fast!

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I often think how I’d love to have those old bottles and cures in my home today, along with an enormous, but shallow, medicine cabinet so I wouldn’t have to peruse the kitchen and multiple bathrooms in search of an ibuprofen every time my head ached!

Grandma and Grandpa moved into town when I was eleven, and didn’t bring the case or its contents.  However, she still possessed the curative powers of a beautiful, gentle spirit.  That much never changed.

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At some point I lost my fear of bees, and when I planned my garden included plants designed to attract the creatures, along with hummingbirds and butterflies.  I haven’t been stung since a child, and now enjoy having them buzz by.  I became friendly with a huge black bumble for a few years.  He visited each spring.  Once, I hosed him down by accident when watering my flowers, and he chased me for a few yards.  The old boy had quite a personality.  Sadly, there just aren’t that many around nowadays, and I haven’t seen a pesky sweat bee in decades.

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Please, enjoy the special treats I’ve prepared for my tribute to the busy bee!

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Many ways to sweeten tea exist.  Of course, there’s white sugar, sugar in the raw, and dainty sugar cubes.  Imitation sweeteners work for diabetics or those counting calories.  The Russians favor placing jam in their cup before adding the steaming liquid.  I’ve yet to attempt this, but look forward to trying.  My favorite choice comes from bees.  An artificial powder is my norm, but every so often I switch things up and treat myself.  Did you know that there are many different types of honey, each suited to different kinds of tea?  I love what the little buzzers make from cactus, wildflowers, orange blossoms, and sage.  These all have their own subtle flavor.  There’s even a deep, rich nectar available in March and April from the avocado tree!  A vendor at a local farmers’ market provides my stash.  I recommend this strong flavor paired with a chai or another sturdy brew.

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Today I’ve chosen a delicate sage honey to accompany a mango Ceylon black leaf tea.  Do sample the Parmesan crisps topped with sautéed diced mushrooms and the fig crackers with goat cheese and guava preserves.  Each provides an explosion of flavor in your mouth!

Grab a pizzelle, the delicate low calorie Italian waffle cookie, some tasty black currant wafers imported from the Dolomites, and a rich cinnamon roll.  These will satisfy your sweet tooth after our savory bites.

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Have a comfortable chair, another cup with lemon and honey, and share some of your childhood memories.  I’ll bet you had a few run-ins with creepy crawlies, too.

What do you think of my flower cups and saucers?  Will they attract any bees?

Don’t forget to take a few Chimes with you for the trip home.  I discovered these orange and ginger chews at a local museum.

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I just had to share these gorgeous saucers with you!

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The most time consuming part of this consisted of setting up the tea table and making the mushroom topping for the cheese crisps.  I’d hoped to add fig jam to the Parmesan rounds, but my local market didn’t have any, so I improvised with the delicious guava and was not disappointed.  For those not wanting jelly, I topped some with halved pear tomatoes.  To bring the goat cheese to a good spreading consistency, I recommend combining a quarter cup of room temperature cheese with a teaspoon of cream, using an electric mixer.  You can increase the amounts, based upon how many people you plan to serve.

To make the mushroom topping, dice three or four large brown mushrooms.  Be sure they are thoroughly rinsed, as dirt tends to cling to the caps.  Melt two tablespoons of butter in a small skillet (I prefer salted butter in this case).  Finely chop one tablespoon of fresh parsley.  Sauté the mushrooms, adding salt and pepper to taste.  Just before the butter seems completely absorbed (this only takes a few minutes) and bubbly, turn off heat, add parsley and cover until ready to serve.  This is a very simple recipe and could be jazzed up with shallots, a splash of wine, or more herbs.  My teenage boys, who don’t favor mushrooms, admitted they liked this!

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Fresh flowers, a gift from a friend, add to the cheerful ambiance.

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Terracotta napkin rings enhance the garden theme.

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Thank you for coming, and I hope you’ll venture to try some of the more unique honeys on the market.   Do stop by again soon!

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“Like trains of cars on tracks of plush
I hear the level bee:
A jar across the flowers goes,
Their velvet masonry.

Withstands until the sweet assault
Their chivalry consumes,
While he, victorious, tilts away
To vanquish other blooms.

His feet are shod with gauze,
His helmet is of gold;
His breast, a single onyx
With chrysoprase, inlaid.

His labor is a chant,
His idleness a tune;
Oh, for a bee’s experience
Of clovers and of noon!”

-Emily Dickinson

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Friendship Tea: Rules For a Proper Brew

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Come in and let the sound of harps playing transport you to a more genteel era!  It’s teatime again, and I hope you enjoy the taste of everything I’ve turned out.

As the quote above states, you never know when a friendship will form.  You might click with someone you work with, meet a like-thinker on the internet, or enjoy the humor of an acquaintance so much you bond in an instant.

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A former coworker cemented our relationship over tea.  My friend hailed from Kent, England, and shared some startling news with me.  “Do you warm your pot?” she asked with a serious tone.  Uh, no, I had never heard of warming my pot.  “How about the cup?  You must warm your cup!  Some even insist on warming their saucer,” she informed me, lowering her voice to a whisper.  My associate dipped her chin and gazed at me over tortoise shell eyeglass frames.  I felt as if let in on a huge conspiracy kept hidden from the common American for decades, if not centuries.

We agreed, pouring scalding water in a saucer went too far.  Who wants liquid dripping from the bottom of their cup as they sip their tea?  She explained that to make a proper cup, the pot must be heated first with near boiling water from your kettle (Don’t allow it to whistle!).  Pop the lid on, then pour more hot water into each cup, swirl and empty.   Discard the warming H20 from the pot and commence brewing your tea.  All the while, being careful to keep the water on the stove from boiling.  This all seemed like quite the juggling act!

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Experts believe the ideal water temperature for most types of tea (white, green, Oolong, & black) is below boiling.  The exact degree varies depending on what kind of leaf you brew, but I play it safe by removing the kettle as soon as I hear the familiar rumble that says steam bubbles are forming.  Herbal infusions require boiling water, but even here I’m conservative and turn off the heat before a roaring boil begins.

To make matters more complicated, there is also a two pot method of brewing tea (I’m not going to even touch the heated cups measuring technique!).  One teapot is for steeping, then the liquid is strained into a second pot (already warmed) for serving.  This prevents the leaves from releasing too much tannin.  I prefer to utilize an infuser and remove the leaves once I’m happy with the brew’s strength.  The same is true when I use tea bags.

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So, do I warm my pot and cups?  Sometimes, depending on the clock and how busy I am.  Today, I did.  Give it a try (you don’t need to fill the pot to the brim, add just enough water to heat the vessel) and see if it makes a difference in your cuppa!

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Can I pour you another cup of raspberry tea?  It’s delicious, isn’t it?  Try an éclair.  I believe they’re just as good as homemade.

I’ve kept things simple today with mini steak rolls filled with a chive and parsley mixture, cocktail cucumbers stuffed with ham salad, and colorful fruit kabobs.  Butter cookies and tiny éclairs from my grocer’s freezer department serve as sweets.  I’ve paper nosegays for each guest to take home, wrapped in vintage lace hankies which can be used as napkins, or serviettes for those not from the States.  My colleague from Kent would laugh at my word choice.

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I found small steaks, already cooked and sliced, in my big box store.  I mixed softened cream cheese with chopped fresh chives and parsley, spread on the meat, then wrapped into a roll.  The herbs add a wonderful bright taste.

For the stuffed cocktail cucumbers, I scooped out the vegetables with a small spoon (after slicing one end to make a flat surface).  Save the top of each cucumber for the “lid”, then load with the ham salad and add the cap.  These small vegetable treats provide a novel, clean pop of flavor.  The contrast between the fluffy ham salad and crisp veggie makes for a delightful bite.

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A pretty ruffled pink ribbon ties each napkin (serviette) bundle — a girly touch.  Fresh flowers in miniature silver vases add to the genteel feel of this tea, as does the lace tablecloth.

Thank you for sharing this time with me.  I hope you’ll pop by again next week!

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A Cup for the Winter Blues

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I agree that the sound of china clinking together brings cheerful thoughts.  There’s just something about the anticipation of a cuppa that makes me glad.  It definitely lifts one’s mood, which might be necessary this time of year.  Do you get the blues when the sun doesn’t show its face for a few days?

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     Well, do come in, leave the rest of the world behind, and dispel any melancholy by sharing conversation and teatime.   I’ve chosen the light classical guitars of the Romeros for background music and a strong Earl Grey to bolster our spirits.

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By the way, did you know that a 2014 study at the University of Calabria in Italy showed that the bergamot extract in Earl Grey is good for your heart?  They discovered it lowers overall cholesterol while increasing HDL, or good cholesterol.

Let’s have at least two cups!

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People have enjoyed tea for centuries, but I believe the term teatime was first coined in 1727.  The drink’s history began over 4,000 years prior in China.  Rumor has it, a servant was boiling water for his emperor when some loose leaves blew in and Voila!  By 618 AD, it had become China’s beverage of choice.  Buddhist monks carried the elixir to Japan, and by the late 16th century, it made its way to Europe, via the Portuguese and Dutch.  Catherine of Braganza, the Portuguese wife of Charles II, established the brew as a favorite in Great Britain… she was rumored to be a tea addict!  By the 20th century, consumption in England had grown to 6 lbs per person, per annum.  Considering the leaves’ light weight, that’s a lot of tea.

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I don’t care to know how many pounds I consume annually.  I’m just pleased to learn that it might be good for my health.  I can’t say the same for the sweets I’ve prepared today, although I’m hopeful about the sandwiches (watercress is a green leafy vegetable, after all, rich in minerals and antioxidants)!

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The ubiquitous crust-free sandwich makes its appearance today.  I felt I had to include them, and I’ll admit, I slaved over these small bites.  A nearby market carries watercress, so I combined the chopped leafy vegetable with cream cheese to produce these perennial favorites.  I’ve also layered maple ham, watercress, and cream cheese with a dash of Tabasco for an alternative.  I went so far as to make a layered version with pesto, pineapple cream cheese, ham, and cranberry jelly (the verdict from my son: There’s a lot of flavor here!).  Don’t be afraid to experiment, just have a sharp knife for removing those crusts.  I find cheese twists always make a fine companion to a cup of tea.

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Elevate a store bought cake with the addition of fresh berries and mint.  I’m proud of theses mini cupcakes, jazzed up with sparkling purple sugar and a lavender infused violet hard candy from France.  Aren’t they pretty?  Check out these lacy place settings.

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A real treat in winter, a variety of berries grace the table.   In addition to the blackberries, blueberries with custard fill tiny crystal goblets, while chocolate dipped strawberries provide a bit of glamour.

After filling the cups, keep a fresh pot on a nearby tray for refills.  If your friends have settled in and gotten comfy (& hopefully they have), you can replenish their drinks from the tray.

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Add to your ambiance by utilizing throw pillows that match your theme or color scheme.  I’ve noticed many at reasonable prices available online, in catalogues, or at discount shops.  Your visitors will feel extra special because of this little touch.  If guests choose sugar to sweeten their tea, they’ll be greeted by my troll spoon!

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Thank you for coming. I hope you feel pampered and appreciated with this blue and white spread aimed to chase away the doldrums! I look forward to our next visit.

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